Tag: shame


My wife keeps saying she is happy with my cross-dressing ...

Hello I'm in the UK. I hope you can give me some advice. From my earliest years I have dressed in female clothes, this has brought me comfort, arousal, happiness and comfort. I have been married for 16 years and my wife and I love each other very much. She tells me that she doesn't mind my "hobby" but I always feel awkward when dressed with her. I seem to go through a yearly cycle of repressing everything and then getting to a point where I can't restrain my inclination to wear my clothes/make-up etc. My wife keeps saying she is happy with my dressing but I am sure she is not. I don't want to hurt her or do anything which will destroy our marriage but I feel as though I am living with a bursting dam behind me. I can't ask you whether I am transsexual or a transvestite but if you could give me some advice I'd be very grateful. Many thanks!


My friend asked me to have sex but he said ...

I am a boy and I have a friend who has had girlfriends before but sometimes when he would come over he wanted to do sexual things. Sometimes I would go to sleep and would wake up to find his arm over me and him right up against me. I asked him once before if he was gay and he said no. After that, he hasn't asked to do anything else. Claims it makes him feel bad or shameful. Is he gay? And if I liked some of the stuff he did, does it makes me gay?