Tag: same gender relationship



My friend seems to really like me but she says ...

Ive always liked guys until this one girl. At first we were friends but I like her so much. At first I didn’t think anything of it, but I couldnt stop thinking about her. I ended up telling her my feelings and she was fine with it. We would text every night and mad flirt; but then our friends found out and she completely turned on me saying shes not gay and she was kidding the whole time. She did eventually apologize for that, but it still hurt. Weve gone back to normal of texting every day and night, but it bugs me. She gets jealous when I talk about the guy I like because she’s scared I won’t like her anymore, and says things like Im like a drug, she cant go a day without talking me, shes scared of losing me and stuff like that. She even said, “It’s weird, when I get a text from you I get excited”. And how it bugs her that she cant give me what a guy can. Its little things she says like oh we should go skating and I won’t let you fall by holding your hand that gets me. Im confused...


How do I tell him I have a crush on ...

So I'm gay and I met this guy I knew is gay here in college. During our free time before classes started we hung out practically every day, and to this day we hang out as much as we can but with a couple of other friends. But ever since then I've had the biggest crush on him. He recently came out to us (even though he didn't know I already knew), but I don't know if he knows that I am. There has been many occasions were I've planed to tell him about my crush. Now I feel that it is the time but certain emotions keep me from telling him this. I am thinking the next time I get to hang out with him alone to confess ... but I need someones help.