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I’ve found myself attracted to guys, does that mean that ...

Dear AlterHeros staff, First I want to thank you for establishing such website for youth who are or may be wondering about themselves. Incidentally, I am one of those people. I am turning 19 soon, and I think it's time for me to realize what my sexual orientation really is. I have noticed for a long time that I am attracted to both male and female (more like 75% for male and 25% for female), and I actually have had couple of crushes on some male friends of mine. It that normal? I've heard before that even straight people have crushes on the same-sex friends sometimes. Does the fact that I am attracted to males and have had crushes on same-sex conclude that I am gay? Is there any possibility that I just want to be like them (eg. good-looking, smart, athletic, etc), or is it that I actually like them, instead of being like them. I realize that my question may not be so significant, but I would really appreciate if you could reply with an answer. Thank you :)