Tag: réaction


My friend is acting moody with me since I expressed ...

Recently I became paranoid that my boyfriend, who is really good friends with one of my best friends, would start to want to be with her instead of me. I told them both that I felt threatened and my boyfriend understood and reassured me that they were only friends and could never be anything more because of the way they interacted. I trust them both and I believe them. Anyway, a few days after I spoke to them about how I felt and got it resolved, my friend brought it up again and started to act really moody with me. She said that she felt like I didn't trust her anymore but I do! I wasn't sure why because she doesn't really have much to do with the matter apart from being the girl that I felt threatened by. She told me to think about others involved and how they felt so I asked her how she felt and she said it wasn't about her and blew me off. Why is she bringing it all up again after we solved the problem? How can I prove that I trust them and how can I fix our friendship? Please help!!


I am really attracted to a guy, but I am ...

I have become very attracted to a guy friend who is also a fellow university student in the same graduate program I am in. I think about him constantly and feel so at ease with him. I have feelings that I cannot explain when I am close to him. I do not know if I am gay or bisexual. I want to tell him but do not know how he would react. I think he would react well but I am so unsure. It keeps me awake at night, what should I do?


I’m afraid girls will not want to be with me ...

In the past year I told my girlfriend of 7 years that I am bisexual. It has been hard on both of us. She thinks that I lied to her, and since then she has become increasingly verbally abusive, calling me me a fag. Basically, we have broken up despite the fact that I still love her... I'm finally at the point where I think I can date other women (and I have been dating guys as well), but I am afraid that girls will not want to be with me if I tell them that I'm bi? Should I tell them I'm bi? And are girls generally unwilling to date bisexual men?





Story – Mom and Dad, merry Christmas, I’m gay !

Christmas holiday season is back! A time of festivities and happiness... but wait… there is a catch! What would happen if it is you (yes, yes, you, the gay/lesbian of the family) who would introduce the man/woman of your life to all your family? What would happen if your family simply do not know you're gay or lesbian? Is Christmas a good time to tell? Let me explore this a little…