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Is it acceptable to be good friends with a teacher ...

Is it acceptable to be good friends with a teacher of the opposite sex? I'm 17 years old at an only-girls school. I am really close to a male teacher (even though he is not currently teach me). I met him when I was 13 through a sporting activity. Over the years we have grown closer, and have become friends. He is 37, and is married with kids. We have the same interests and have long and fulfulling conversations. Me, him and my friend (also 17) are best friends and do so much together. Recently the 3 of us went to a different city for a concert, and had the best night ever. Our relationship is not sexual in any way, though we do greet with hugs sometimes. I do love him, but only as a friend. He feels the same way. A lot of people find this friendship weird, and many disapprove. But he looks after me, and is definitely young at heart. I can see us being friends forever. I love every minute I spend with him. I don't know what to think/do, and whether this relationship is truly wrong or weird? Please help!


I am in love with my teacher but he recently ...

Dear experts I have a problem and need some advice. There is a teacher in my classroom who stares at me a lot, whenever I enter the classroom he makes eye contact with me. I feel like he's attracted to me. I heard he even got married a few months ago. I like him as a teacher, we have NO relationship whatsoever and never will be. This really bothers me. Once when he stared at me he couldn't stop staring at me. He hasn't done anything inappropriate to me. Please help me what should I do? Does he have a crush on me? Should I report him? I'm in love with him. I know this is wrong but I just fell in love with him. When I heard he got married I was shocked, I was falling apart. This hurts so much. So much suffering and sadness. Please help me, what should I do? Should I forget him? Thanks a lot.


I am attracted to my teacher and afraid I might ...

I am attracted to my teacher and afraid I might be obsessing over him. I started dating a guy around his age that looks a lot like him. I am constantly thinking about him throughout the day. I punish myself by not eating at night the days I go to school not dressed up so that I can look good for him. I have dreams about him and fantasies. I find myself laughing out in class when I do have fantasies about him. I cant wait until I am in his class. I don't know if this is me obsessing over him or how to get rid of the obsession. I really don't know what to do. What should I do?