Tag: phase

Do I love her ? Is it just a phase ...

I've always been with men only. But until I had a 3some three years ago, I started to be more curious and I wanted to experience being with a woman. But I've never found the right person. Well, I was working with this female up until last year May and when she quit we became the best of friends. Then it wasn't until this year that she told me she was bisexual and that she had a huge crush on me. But she respected the fact that we are friends and she would never cross the line. Well, one time she invited me to a party with a few friends and for some reason that night I just wanted to kiss her, but I didn't have the nerves to do it in public. Long story short I was in a relationship and I asked my boyfriend could I try it with a woman. I ended up sleeping with her and we've been doing just that for the past 3 months. I find myself wondering what it would be like to be in a relationship with her. I find myself wanting to see her more. Is it a phase? Am I really in love? How do I know?

I’m confused about my gender identity. Help me!

I have had thoughts about transsexalism for some time. At first I thought it was a fetish, because I fantasised about being with T-Girls all the time. However, the last few years, I've been female in all my dreams, I've been sexually active, yet have never "cum" with a girl, I have fantasies about having sex with guys as a girl.... I've been to psychiatrists and they say I'm just confused, that it's just a phase... but I'm not sure... I've made my appearance much more Feminine, and cross-dress whenever I can, but am too scared to go out in public... What should I do? Should I try another shrink? Should I tell my parents? I'm so confused. – TF

Should I be straight forward and tell my new friends ...

I "came out" to the school that I am currently going to and to my mother; but I am moving and now I don't know if I should be straight foward and tell the new people at the new school that I am bisexual. What do you think I should do? Also, I have accepted that I am at least bisexual, but lately I have been feeling that I might be more than just that. Lately, I have been really wondering whether or not I might be lesbian. I still have some feelings for guys, but I'm still not sure. Do you think that I may be lesbian, or do you think it's something else? Like maybe just a faze or something.

Bluntly, My Life

Here lies a synopsis of excruciating memories turned into sarcastic folly. I was an adopted little girl, dubbed the "Asian tomboy." Because I was repeatedly mistaken for male I did not mind allowing sports to be an influtential part of my life. During the teenage acne phase I found comfort draping myself in oversized solid colored attire from Russell's Athletic Wear.