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Am I really bisexual or is it just sex ?

I am a 14 year old male. I have liked girls all of my life. I first came across homosexuality when I was around 11. One of my friends would joke about being gay. He would do little things with me and I wanted to do more, but I didn't think I was gay. I have done things (not intercourse) with 2 boys since then and neither of them are gay. Now I am really confused because I like this gay guy, but not in the way I like girls. At first, I hated how he had a poofy voice (going along with everyone elses opinion about gay people). But I didn't bully him about it or anything. Then, after telling him that I thought another gay guy liked him, he said, "Just because you're jealous I have a boyfriend." Ever since then, I have had feelings for him that I don't really want to have. When I think about hot girls, I think about sex. When I think about hot guys, I think about sex. But when I think about girls I really like, I think about relationships. Am I really bisexual or just desperate for sex? Thanks

(Testimony) Now, I accept my bisexuality

I am 15 years old and im a sophmore in highschool, last year during my freshmen year of highschool, i started to develope and attraction towards girls,but im also attracted to boys,the thought of being attracted to girls scared me, and i really started to wonder if it was a phase,or if i was bi-curious or even bisexual, i was really confused about my sexuality, i was really confused in my early stages of coming to terms with my bisexuality,it took me some time to realize i was bisexual an i was attracted to both sexes; accepting my new label as a bisexual was hard cause i had lived for a long time labled as straight and i was affaid to accept my new label as a bisexual, accepting my new label as a bisexual was very hard ,cause i had made a swich in my lifestyle from staight to bisexual. overtime i accepted my attractions towards boys and girls and i also acceppted my new label as bisexual,it was confusing at first but ive grown to like it.