Tag: kind


Did same-sex sexual abuse turn me gay?

I'm 20 years old and would like to know something. It's kind of a weird question to ask, but I will anyways. When I was 7 years old, I was molested by a 40 year old man on several occasions. I didn't know it was a bad thing to do at the age of 7. I feel so betrayed now and hurt. This man was my first sexual contact with anyone and I wanted to know if he made me gay?


Is beauty important to get involved in a serious relationship?

Hello, I'm a gay guy from Tunisia who wants to have a serious boyfriend. Some people have said that I am cute, but others doubt it. I'm confused: Am I ugly or am I beautiful? Every time I'm going to meet a guy I get so worried and nervous. I imagine that he's rejecting me because of my image. When I see cute guys I envy them. Sometimes I feel ok and beautiful but most of time I don't. Is beauty so important to get a boyfriend? And how could I fight my doubts? Please help me – I'm about to lose my mind!


I think my teacher is attracted to me.

I think my teacher is attracted to me. I am just confused with how he is acting around me; he is the type of teacher everybody loves, makes fun of everybody and is known for being a hardass towards his students (regardless of their gender), but once I got to know him I realized that there was something very different about the way he acted towards me. He stares at me constantly when I'm in his class; he grants me different privileges over other students; he asks me about my love life; and I know he is trying hard not to cross any lines, and I just really need to know how to act around him. Help?



Why does my boyfriend treat me differently than his other ...

My boyfriend is awesome, but he treats me differently than all of his other girlfriends. He held their hands on the day after they have been dating, and it's been over a month and he still hasn't made a move. Does he think it would be awkward or something? I try being patient and he says that he misses me when I'm gone and puts his arm around my waist sometimes, but it just isn't the same as the way he acted with his other girlfriends. He says that he loves them and holds hands with them, but now that he dates me he doesn't hold my hand or say anything like that. Is there something wrong or is it just me being too extreme? Is he just shy?


I have sexual fantasies about my stepmother, and I don’t ...

Hello, I've just turned sixteen and for the past year or so I've been having sexual fantasies about my Step-Mom. I want to tell her, but I don't want her to hate me or feel disgusted by me. I know this could be due to hormonal changes, as she is the only female I see because I am home-schooled. I feel really horny around her and masturbation doesn't help, so I was wondering if there is anyway to stop this feeling without therapy? AlterHeros, I need your help!


Should I have sex with my friend? He doesn’t want ...

I have a friend I've know for over 10 years and there's always been a strong attraction there and still is on both of our parts. Only he says he doesn't want a relationship but he wants to make love to me. I told him he doesn't love me to say – “make love”. He never denied it or agreed. Should I have sex with him?




How can I tell if this girl likes me ?

How can i tell if a girl likes me when i see her in the halls she passes me by and waves "hi" to me sometimes and sometimes she ignores me like she doesn't see me but im pretty sure she does and she smiles at me and last time she started playing with my hair but she has a boyfriend but i guess that maybe she is bi does she like me or not?