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Making out with my lesbian friend who has a girlfriend

I am a 16 year old male and I love a lesbian. She is 15. She has a Girlfriend for about 3 months now. She has not all ways been a lesbian but I respect her decision and I love her very much. I have not met her girlfriend yet because she lives in a different state. At one point she dated my best friend, a guy before she dated this girl. She was raped at the age of 12 by a probably 30 year old man. She said I am amazing guy and if she was into guys she would date me. One night about a week ago she spent the night at my house. We played around a little. We flirted, cuddled, kissed, necked and I sucked on her nipple and rubbed her down there. After that we felt guilty because she is still dating her girlfriend. She told me to just forget about what happened that night. I'm wondering she is like truly a lesbian. I am also wonder if me and her can ever be in a relationship.


I am not in the mood for sex since my ...

Hi. I have been with my boyfriend for almost 7 years now. We are both 21 years old. I had my daughter almost 3 and 1/2 years ago. Our sex life was great before that, then my boyfriend had sex with another girl behind my back over several months. I know he is truly sorry for what he has done. It is painful for me to have intercourse and it seems like I am never in the mood. The affair took place 3 years ago. we are finding it very hard to get back on track with this problem. I never feel in the mood for sex and seem to carry on without it fine. However I know at 21 I should not feel this way. I just wondered if you had any advice for me. Many thanks.




My parents won’t let me date before I turn 15

This is Katie again...the one who asked how come my boyfriend doesn't treat me like his other girlfriends. Your answer helped me a lot. He was my first kiss and the first guy I've held hands with...I really like him a lot...but something has come up... I'm turning 15 in a 2 months. My parents won't allow me to date until I turn 15 and even then we can't go to the movies or anything until a couple months after he has been to my house and hanged out with my parents and family. My sister found out today that I've been dating him for over a month now. She says I have to break up with him until I turn 15 and he is allowed to date other girls in the meantime. I'm crying about it because he is the only guy that I've dated that I've liked this much before. I'm scared that if I tell him this, he will soon move on and find another girl and by the time I do get to date it will be too late. I just don't want to let him go this way.I care about him way too much for this..What can I do? Josh is the only guy I've liked this much


I want to know if my friend likes me!

I'm a 27 year old gay college male and I am attracted to a 17 year old German exchange student at school. When we first met, I saw him as a friend but as time passed, I developed feelings for him, and now I want him as my boyfriend. Also, he was really nice to me when I first met him, but now I think he just used me to give him tours of the town. He asked for my msn and he never talks to me on msn. Our friendship is based on technology because I'm always busy and so is he, we text each other sometimes, rarely talk on msn unless we're meeting up or call each other on cell. We had our first outing and he kept on joking how I should be a drag queen and I went along with the joke. I don't know what this means though. Also, I tested him by trying to kiss him and he pushed me away real hard and gave me a serious look. This was our first outing together...maybe I was going too fast? I've known him for 3 months, but it seems like we've known each other for 1 week with this type of technological communication. I want to know if he likes me!


I like this girl but she sees me only as ...

I like this girl..I am always flirting with her and calling her my baby..she goes along with it..Then she says I'm cool and a sweetheart but she sees me as a friend. I asked her if it would be a bad idea if I tried to win her over and she said that she sees me as a friend but if I want to continue and try then its my decision. What should I do, I am very confused??



I am a girl who is in love with my ...

I am a girl who is in love with my gay best friend's boyfriend. I know it sounds really bad but I can't stop thinking about him. When I'm with him it's great, and I can see us together, but he is dating my best friend. When we get drunk, we kiss a little bit and joke about how we would be happy together, but he means more to me than he actually knows. When my dad died early this year, he was there more than my own friends, if I have a problem I will go to him first, and he will come to me instead of going to his friends. I am unsure of what to do about it, and how to act, even though I know that nothing will ever happen between us.


Friends or lovers ?

Friends or lovers?, A few days ago i visited my high school friend, we have always had this weird relationship where she tells me when she feels jealous, how great i am, and how she loves me and loves spend every second with me, even though we haven't been together in almost 5 years. We finally after some drinks started kissing each other for the first time and I felt suprisingly great and very into that, we then started touching each other and talking about living together in another country but after all this, a few hours later she tells me she only wants to be my friend, she doesn't want anything with me, so i backed off without saying a word, but wanted to touch her all the time, and then again she approched me and started kissing me, but then says we are only friends, so how i am supposed to do? i ask her but she says she sees me as her friend. What could she be feeling or how do i treat her? Thanks


Wondering if I’m bisexual

Hi. I'm 14 years old just wondering if I'm bisexual. I know this sounds weird, but the thought of being bi sort of scares me. I have been pretty far with a guy (oral sex) and enjoyed it, but I often find myself thinking about girls. I have never kissed a girl or anything, but I think about it all the time. Do you think I'm bi or am I just exploring/experimenting.



I’m out but still questioning, and I need some advice. ...

Hi... Well, everyone knows about the term "coming out of the closet"... Well a while back, I was pulled out. So now I don't know what to do. Everywhere I look, there's someone making a wise-crack about it. Problem is, I'm not sure myself what I am. I never really cared before, I just rolled with the punches. But now that everyone knows, everything is just unbearable. They even somehow found out about some of my past experiences, and are using them as a basis. even though anyone knows, I can't seem to admit it. My close friends stuck around (mostly because they're homosexual or bisexual, so they're fine with it). Even though they know what I'm going through, I can't seem to speak up. I don't know what i'm asking really, I just want some advice, to make things a bit easier and reassure me. Thanks for your time, and for trying to answer my slightly confusing letter. - Jeffrey