Tag: girlfriend


I get more excited about women, but would prefer to ...

About a year ago, I began to be attracted to gay men, in looks and stereotypical personalities, and watching them "do stuff" turns me on. I became sort of obsessed with the gay community and started watching logo, reading gay books, etc, and standing up for gay rights whenever it's mentioned. I thought I was a little weird, but still considered myself straight, just something of a "fag-hag". But, lately, I've found myself more attracted to women than guys. When I think of women, I tend to get more excited than I do with men, but I like the idea of a bf more than a gf. I feel like a total hypocrite saying this, but I'm terrified of the thought that I might be a lesbian. I've always hidden my "gay obsession" from my dad because I know how he'd react, but my mom knows and she asked me once if I was a lesbian and I gave her a definite "no". I feel like I'd be betraying her if I decided I was. I'm very shy and have never had a boyfriend, crush, or male friend since I was 7. What do (...)


My boyfriend wants to change gender, and I am uncomfortable ...

I'm 18 years old and my boyfriend is 24. He wants to change gender and he knows I'm bisexual. I tried to support him but I'm uncomfortable with this. Also, he was in a long-distance relationship and I'm pretty sure that he didn't break-up with this girl, because she is still sending him gifts and love messages. He knows I am in love with him and I'm scared he's using me. He has a lot of people who want to be with him and he never tells them that he has a girlfriend.




I am 18 and my 16 years old girlfriend came ...

I saw a question similar to this but want to ask for advice in my situation. So, I've been going out with Erika, my girlfriend, for almost 8 months. It's not my first long-term relationship but it is for her--it's her first lesbian relationship. She wanted to come out to her family and I told her I'd support her. Once her family found out though, well, her mom hasn't stopped crying. And I know she blamed me because I "converted" her in her eyes, and I could see why she would feel disrespected, considering I've slept over etc. I texted her mom and told her I was sorry. She told me that I had given a horrible pain to her family and to stay away from her family because Erika was confused and that since she is 16 and I'm 18, an adult, I should just stay away. My gf says her mom would never sue me but I'm scared, our moms work at the same school. The last thing I want to do is stay away from Erika, though. So what do I do?



Is my girlfriend pregnant?

My girlfriend and I had oral sex, only.I clearly remember not touching her genitals with precome, i was careful.I washed up,before we were together.I did not probe her with my fingers at all,nor did i ejaculate on her vulva. She has not gotten her periods this month, it is approx 7 days late.We fear pregnancy(which i feel is impossible).I had unknowingly ejaculated through my sleep in the morning i.e. 7 am, and we engaged in oral sex at 11 am, of course through the days routine of personal hygiene, semen would not have remained on my hand,or would have died out.She was in a peak 3-4 days later.But an interesting thing is that for the past 6 months, her periods have shifted (instead of getting her period on the 1st of the month,which was clockwork, she was getting it on the 7th or 8th, of the month). She has also been through a lot of stress, exams,family issues. With all the facts put forth. Could she be pregnant? looking back i remember no sperm touched her at all. Pl help me?



I’m afraid girls will not want to be with me ...

In the past year I told my girlfriend of 7 years that I am bisexual. It has been hard on both of us. She thinks that I lied to her, and since then she has become increasingly verbally abusive, calling me me a fag. Basically, we have broken up despite the fact that I still love her... I'm finally at the point where I think I can date other women (and I have been dating guys as well), but I am afraid that girls will not want to be with me if I tell them that I'm bi? Should I tell them I'm bi? And are girls generally unwilling to date bisexual men?


Am I too clingy ?

Basically my girlfriends best friend said that I was being too clingy so I asked her and she said that she understands why I am. We only really get to hang out during school and that's only during passing time and lunch. We rarely see each other during the weekend and when we do it's usually because I'm visiting her during work. Most of my male friends don't see it as clingy. I hold her by the waist and stuff and I ask to go places she goes, but I rarely get to go. I just need to know if I am being too clingy, and if I am what should I do about it? Also what is your opinion on this situation?


My girlfriend’s family doesn’t want her to go out with ...

Hi, I think I got a problem. Well, I love a girl and she is my sister's friend and she love's me but the thing is her mom – she kind of found out what was going on and she does not want her daughter to be with a girl. I just fell like dumping her even if it has only been 2-3 days that we did made are relation official – and that's because of her mom. I don't want to be causing trouble in her family. My girlfriend knows that I am an alcoholic and she accept that fact, but I know myself and if her brother make her feel guilty I will go drunk to see him and do something to him. I don't know what to do because of her family. I am ready for that. Please HELP ME before I get crazy. She is like 16 and me 19.



When my finger was in her vagina, it became wet. ...

When I was hanging out with my girlfriend we were makeing out. I asked her if I could finger her and she said yes so i unbuttoned her pants and started fingering her. I kept going and moved down farther and it was wet I'm just wondering but did she cum or pee or something.