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I am a girl who is in love with my ...

I am a girl who is in love with my gay best friend's boyfriend. I know it sounds really bad but I can't stop thinking about him. When I'm with him it's great, and I can see us together, but he is dating my best friend. When we get drunk, we kiss a little bit and joke about how we would be happy together, but he means more to me than he actually knows. When my dad died early this year, he was there more than my own friends, if I have a problem I will go to him first, and he will come to me instead of going to his friends. I am unsure of what to do about it, and how to act, even though I know that nothing will ever happen between us.


I am scared of being bisexual because my parents would ...

Hi, my name is Bailey. For some reason, I just enjoy watching lesbian interaction, such as kissing. But I have had boyfriends and enjoyed my relationships with them. I truly think I am bisexual but I am scared of being one because my parents disapprove this very thought. What should I do?


Am I bisexual or bi-curious ? And how could I ...

am extremely confused right now. For a long time, I had lots of crushes on guys, and even one the beginnings of dating one guy. I was SURE I was 100% heterosexual, but now I'm not so positive. There is a girl in one of my college courses that I have developed feelings for. Not only that, but I have also begun to think of OTHER girls as attractive. Am I Bisexual? Bi-curious? I'm fairly certain I could be able to "come out" to my family if so, but I don't want to tell them I'm something I'm not! If I am Bisexual or Bi-curious, the person I'd love to tell is my roommate, but she believes Gays, Lesbians, and Bisexuals are posessed by demons. I have read several of your other answers to other questions, and it seems you know a lot about these issues. Do you know of any solution to my problems, both with my roommate and my (for lack of a better word) crush? Please help!!!




I need to talk to someone about my sexual orientation ...

Hey! First, I'm a 14 years old girl. Seven months ago, I realised that I felt something more than friendship toward my best friend and since then, I've started to have thoughts about other girls as well and some dreams too. The other day, my sis and I watched Star Wars episode 2 again, because we found Hayden (Anakin) so cute and sexy. But this time, I was more looking at Natalie (Padmé). I thought I might be bi, or lesbian, I don't know. But I can't deny my attraction toward women; it's just too obvious that they turn me on. I'd like someone to help me, or at least to talk to me about that, but I'm not ready to "come out" and I don't even know what I should say if I did, so I decided to email you. Later, Chibi


How can I know my orientation for sure?

Hi, I'm in my twenties and I am not sure about my sexual orientation. I am physically and emotionally attracted to women but not sexually. I'd like to confirm my orientation, but how can I know for sure? Maybe meeting other people like me would help me, but I don't know where to go. Can you help me?