Tag: discovery


How to make him discover that I am gay ?

Alright so I'll be pretty straight forward. I really like this guy, and I've liked him for a long time now. I've recently "come out" to most people, but it's not information that I just pass around to everyone. So: 1. How do I let this guy know, or find out if he already knows, that I'm gay? At least it would be a start if I could let him know that I'm gay and see what happens from there. What I'm trying to say is how do I start a conversation like that? I see him pretty often in some of my classes and we usually sit next to each other and whatever, but how do I be subtle in letting someone (whos maybe wondering?) know that I'm gay! 2.What the heck do I say afterwards?! I want him to know that I like him, but I'm not always that good at being so straight forward about something like that . Thanks! -Cool Bean


Is it unusual to start being attracted by same-sex in ...

I\'m a 35 year old man who has recently discovered that I\'m bisexual. Before this, I thought of myself as hetero: totally into women, not into men. However, as I\'m continuing my spiritual and self-discovery journey, I find I am attracted to men, when I never have been before. Are there other people who have discovered they\'re bisexual in their mid 30\'s? Is this an unusual time to be making this discovery?


Should I be straight forward and tell my new friends ...

I "came out" to the school that I am currently going to and to my mother; but I am moving and now I don't know if I should be straight foward and tell the new people at the new school that I am bisexual. What do you think I should do? Also, I have accepted that I am at least bisexual, but lately I have been feeling that I might be more than just that. Lately, I have been really wondering whether or not I might be lesbian. I still have some feelings for guys, but I'm still not sure. Do you think that I may be lesbian, or do you think it's something else? Like maybe just a faze or something.