Tag: différence

I am androgynous and pansexual, but how do I communicate ...

Not to long ago I discovered that I was androgynous which was honestly the happiest day of my life. I've never felt so good to understand who I am. I'm also pansexual. But not a lot of people are familiar with these terms. A lot of people seem to blindly say things against who I am. I don't blame them for not knowing about androygnous but I do still hurt when they use words like daugther or girls or boys. I mean why must I choose a side? I just don't know how to get people to understand exactly what I mean. It's so hard to explain to them why I'm androygnous. I mean I didn't choose to be it I just chose to accept it and now I must try and and live with it and get by with all these questions like "please check male or female for your gender" I mean what do I pick? I'm reminded every time I sign up for something or even when I'm shopping in both "men" and "women" sides of the store. I don't know what to do anymore? How do I make this huge part of me known?!

I want to know if my friend likes me!

I'm a 27 year old gay college male and I am attracted to a 17 year old German exchange student at school. When we first met, I saw him as a friend but as time passed, I developed feelings for him, and now I want him as my boyfriend. Also, he was really nice to me when I first met him, but now I think he just used me to give him tours of the town. He asked for my msn and he never talks to me on msn. Our friendship is based on technology because I'm always busy and so is he, we text each other sometimes, rarely talk on msn unless we're meeting up or call each other on cell. We had our first outing and he kept on joking how I should be a drag queen and I went along with the joke. I don't know what this means though. Also, I tested him by trying to kiss him and he pushed me away real hard and gave me a serious look. This was our first outing together...maybe I was going too fast? I've known him for 3 months, but it seems like we've known each other for 1 week with this type of technological communication. I want to know if he likes me!