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I’m attracted to girls but I don’t know wether I’m ...

I am 16 and I have had mistook "admiration" as "crush" a lot of times when I was small... And now knows that the "boy" crushes(3 to be exact) I had was just mere admiration to be like them....(I want to be more masculine) and I recently realised that I am attracted to girls... and if I were to date someone(or marry someone in the far future) then that 'someone' would be a girl... I don't label myself as lesbian because I am still confused as I have never got a crush and neither do I understand what actually is a crush..(and I truly don't understand the "butterfly in stomach" feeling everyone talks about) and also nowadays I question myself like "what if I am lying to myself about being lesbian" "am I being like this just to be different from others?" and such questions are making me more and more confused. Please help! I can't understand whether I'm lesbian or not!!

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I have a huge crush on my teacher… I really ...

Hello, i have a huge crush on my teacher and she is older than me by 21 years and she’s unmarried im (19),she knew me since i was (11),i liked her as a teacher when i was younger but now after all the eye contact/staring she gives me i’ve started to feel something..i know im a lesbian but didn’t think i’ll actually fall for her someday,she doesn’t teach me anymore but i see her almost everyday..and i don’t know if she loves or not but here what she does to me: 1/she keeps staring at me when she sees me out of class 2/she told me once to smile only to her when im upset 3/she once told me to close the door and while im doing so she told me that im the only one who feels her 4/she saw me holding my friends hand and got kinda upset then said “okay wow” when i told her it was because i have a test and this calms me down she told me that i don’t need it and she kept telling me that 5/i was once getting something on ground and then she came and stood right behind me..she was so close to my butt for some reason 6/i was once fixing my bra and she kept looking at me doing so 7/i was once joking with her and told her that i don’t like her and she was like “okay u don’t like me thanks!” and when i was about to leave she asked me”so u don’t (love) me huh?” theses are some of the things that happened to me..i really want to know if she likes me or not..i don’t mind that she’s older than me btw

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Does my teacher like me? I have a crush on ...

Hi, I'm a girl and I have this huge crush on my ELA teacher, who is also female. I find everything about her adorable and might be obsessed with her. She told my mom in parent-teacher conference- "I love her!" "shes my little helper." She also talks to me a lot and tells me I don't smile enough and puts this big smile on to get me to smile and laughs (god i love her laugh) when I do. I had a 99.3 average in her class and when it went down to a b-, she wrote me a little note and put it on my desk during class saying something about how she doesn't like seeing that and she noticed my math grade is similar and "we need to fix this!" and when she walked over and talked to me about it she told me I was very smart and could do better and so on. another thing, she always smiles at me and looks at me in class and she also asks whats wrong if I look sad and offers to let me leave for a bit or take a walk/drink. Does she feel attracted to me? Does she like me? Please help. Thank you. :)

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I’m a girl. So is she. How can i be ...

I really like this girl from school but i hardly know her! I have a friend that knows her though, and so i ask about her often. But she likes a guy and so I'm sitting here watching and waiting. I know that it would be stupid to walk up and start talking to her when I know that we're both girls. I tried talking to a few friends about it, but most of them hate her. And so what if she's a "poser"...(in their opinion) I've talked to her a few times and i really like her. Sometimes i catch her staring at me, and other times she catches me staring at her. We both look away quickly, but i still want to know if she likes me! How can i tell...and what if she already knows if i like her?

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I have a crush on my coworker but she wants ...

I have a crush on my coworker but I found out from her that she likes her ex's best friend and he likes her back and that she's going through some problems with her ex about this. When I confessed my feelings to her, she said that she was really sorry and didn't know what to say. She also told me that she doesn't know me long enough to say whether I'm her type or not and that I was a really cool and understanding person. Then she asked me if we could be good friends or not. When I told her that we'll see, she goes ' You cant be friends with someone you like?'. I told her that I'll be around if she wants to talk or take things off her mind. Now the thing is, my friend told me if she only talks about herself for the next few weeks or doesn't ask me to hang out then I should ditch her because it'll be clear that she's using me. I agree with him but I would also like your opinion on this as well. Is she trying to make use of me or is she trying to scrape out who I really am?

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I came out to friends and now some are casting ...

I am 14 years old and came out to some of my close friends a few months ago and they all took it well. Anyway, I had a crush on one of my good friends for nearly two years. He was not among the ones I came out to. I have not confessed to him directly but he has probably heard it from my friends. However, because of recent events, I do not really have feelings for him anymore. For the past few weeks he has stopped talking to me and he has been telling my friends not to invite me when we all go out together, and sometimes they really do listen to him. I feel like they all hate me. I really just want to be friends with him again. What should I do?

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I am straight, but I am questioning whether I’m attracted ...

I've lately begun to wonder if what I feel for one of my closest friends is more than just friendship. Sometimes I think I'd like to kiss her, but other times, I feel nothing sexual at all. I'm not worried about how she would receive this, as I know she has been attracted to women before, and very much supports the LGBT community. Right now, I'm just so confused about how I actually feel about her. I do tend to seek her approval a lot, and when she praises me, I feel absurdly pleased with it. On the other hand, up until very recently, I'd never even seriously considered if I might be even bisexual, and I'm not sure if what I'm feeling for her is genuine attraction, or just a little girl crush. What should I do?

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I am in love with my teacher but he recently ...

Dear experts I have a problem and need some advice. There is a teacher in my classroom who stares at me a lot, whenever I enter the classroom he makes eye contact with me. I feel like he's attracted to me. I heard he even got married a few months ago. I like him as a teacher, we have NO relationship whatsoever and never will be. This really bothers me. Once when he stared at me he couldn't stop staring at me. He hasn't done anything inappropriate to me. Please help me what should I do? Does he have a crush on me? Should I report him? I'm in love with him. I know this is wrong but I just fell in love with him. When I heard he got married I was shocked, I was falling apart. This hurts so much. So much suffering and sadness. Please help me, what should I do? Should I forget him? Thanks a lot.

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Am I bisexual or bi-curious ? And how could I ...

am extremely confused right now. For a long time, I had lots of crushes on guys, and even one the beginnings of dating one guy. I was SURE I was 100% heterosexual, but now I'm not so positive. There is a girl in one of my college courses that I have developed feelings for. Not only that, but I have also begun to think of OTHER girls as attractive. Am I Bisexual? Bi-curious? I'm fairly certain I could be able to "come out" to my family if so, but I don't want to tell them I'm something I'm not! If I am Bisexual or Bi-curious, the person I'd love to tell is my roommate, but she believes Gays, Lesbians, and Bisexuals are posessed by demons. I have read several of your other answers to other questions, and it seems you know a lot about these issues. Do you know of any solution to my problems, both with my roommate and my (for lack of a better word) crush? Please help!!!

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