Tag: couple



My husband is obsessed with anal penetration and he wants ...

I've been married one year and with my spouse for 4 years. He has cross-dressing fetishes which are fine by me. He has not shared this with anyone else, only myself. Wigs, pantyhose, underwear..... It's all ok with me. He also likes anal penetration. Lately it has become an obsession of his. Over the past 8 months we have had problems because he emails and texts other men about his fantasies (that meets via Craigslist) and uses that to stimulate himself while he's dressed and masterbating. We came to agreement that he would not use other people but would allow me to please him. Now he wants to have a 3some with me and another man. I'm not comfortable with that so he just wants to go out and have sex with a man, alone. He says it's fair because he had offered to let me play a part in it. I find it as cheating and being unloyal. Ive offered to play with him just us two but he says it's not the same, it must be a guy. What can I do?


I am not in the mood for sex since my ...

Hi. I have been with my boyfriend for almost 7 years now. We are both 21 years old. I had my daughter almost 3 and 1/2 years ago. Our sex life was great before that, then my boyfriend had sex with another girl behind my back over several months. I know he is truly sorry for what he has done. It is painful for me to have intercourse and it seems like I am never in the mood. The affair took place 3 years ago. we are finding it very hard to get back on track with this problem. I never feel in the mood for sex and seem to carry on without it fine. However I know at 21 I should not feel this way. I just wondered if you had any advice for me. Many thanks.




I am attracted to the same sex, but live in ...

Since childhood I have been attracted to the same sex. I was raised in a very conservative religious environment, and such things are not even mentioned in my family. I accepted that I was odd or different and in my 20's married. I have now been married 20 years and can't seem to fight any longer my urges for another man. I don't want to lose my wife and everything and every friend I have, and I would if this attraction were in the open. What should I do?




My sperm is sometimes transparent; does this mean I am ...

I have noticed that my sperm is sometimes clear, almost transparent. I have been on risperidone consta injection for 6 months: is this to be expected with this medication? My partner and I are trying to have a baby; does the colour of my sperm indicate that I am infertile?


I think I am in love with my best friend

MY BEST FRIEND DOES KIND KNOW I HAVE FEELING FOR HIM AND SHOULD I JUST TELL HIM HOW I REALLY FEEL ABOUT HIM? YES HE WANT KIDS BAD BUT HIS BOYFRIEND THAT HE'S BEEN WITH FOR 4 YEARS NOW,HE HATE KIDS SO WHAT WILL HAPPEN, DO YOU KNOW IF HE WILL LEAVE HIS BOYFRIEND TO HAVE KIDS? I REALLY DONT UNDERSTAND MY BEST FRIEND, HE TELL OH I DONT WANT A BOYFRIEND CAUSE HE WANT TO BE FREE BUT HE DOES NOT LEAVE CAUSE HIS BOYFRIEND WORK AND PAY FOR HIS 2005 CAR AND EVERYTHING FOR HIM AND IS THAT WRONG? SOMETIMES I WISH MY BEST FRIEND JUST LEAVE HIS BOYFRIEND AND BE WITH ME BUT NOT IN A PASSION WAY? I JUST CANT STOP THINKING ABOUT HIM AND I KNOW HE WILL AWAYS BE GAY CAUSE HE WILL ALWAYS TALK ABOUT MENS ALL THE TIME AND MY BEST FRIEND IS ONE OF THOSE GUY WHO HAS ALL THESE GIRLFRIENDS AND HE WILL GO SHOPPING AND DO YOUR MAKEUP AND HAIR FOR YOU. I FEEL HALF OF ME IS DEAD CAUSE I WANT HIM SO BAD AND IT JUST HURT ME AND SO SHOULD I TALK TO HIM MORE ABOUT MY FEELING TO HIM? THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR HELPING ME.