Tag: Bisexuality

I’m wondering if I’m really a lesbian or if I’m ...

Ok, so, I've been questioning my sexuality a lot these past few months. I've found out that I'm certainly attracted to women in a romantic way and in a sexual way. And, personally, being with a woman sounds a lot more loving and comfortable than with a man. I thought I was attracted to guys, but I never really liked them romantically (not as much as women, and with a guy we really might have been just friends?) and that the thought of doing anything sexual with a guy grossed me out / made me very uncomfortable. For a while, I assumed I was asexual because of it. But when people pointed out if certain guys were hot, I could see where they were coming from, only I didn't really want to do anything with it. And when I was friends with guys, it was hard to tell if it was *just* friendship or a crush. But part of me still wonders if I'm really a lesbian or if I'm bi. I'm way more sure of my attraction to women than to guys. Do lesbians see that a guy is kinda hot, but don't really want to do anything about it? Is it comphet? PS : Thanks for answering, this website's really helped me out a lot

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I was hoping someone could point me to where I ...

Hi, I've always identified as being a cis heterosexual male but have been questioning my sexuality for about 2 years now. I'm slowly accepting that I might actually be bi (probably a 2 on the Kinsey scale). I've always been a LGBTQ+ ally but have always had difficulty accepting anything other than straight for myself. I'm in a fairly new committed heterosexual relationship with a girl I love and that loves me. I've finally been able to open up about this with her and she was extremely accepting. It felt good to be heard, not judged, and has removed a lot of weight from my shoulders. I am happy with her, I feel satisfied sexually, and am happy being faithful to her. I'd love to be able to hear from other men who've been through a similar change. Most of what I found online showcased men who initially identified as gay who then realized they liked both. I had trouble relating to them and was hoping someone could point me to where I can find resources that talks about people with a more similar experience to mine. Best,

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Am I bisexual because I want a relationship with a ...

I am currently fifteen and this August turning sixteen. In the past two years or so I have started being fiscally attracted to other men and sometimes I fantasize having sex in the future with men. I think I am straight because I have always wanted to have a wife with kids and have a family but I am not fiscally attracted to women. But i still haven't been in a relationship with a girl or a boy. I am confused about my sexuality. Am I gay because I am attracted more to them and not girls. Am I bi because I want a relationship with a girl but I will be down to try with a boy. Or am I just not ready to accept what my sexuality is?

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I’m starting to like men but I still like women, ...

Since i was 9, i watched a muscle video and my "thing" auto grown, since then i fapped on muscular men on websites, and then i realized i was like being gay. i have more girl friends than boys, because girls were friendly in our school. and im starting to like men but still have liking to women, how can i be straight?

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Will watching transexual porn compromise my hetero lifestyle?

I have been watching Transexual porn and I really enjoy it, but I'm afraid that it will compromise my heterosexual lifestyle that i love. I've also found that i enjoy anal penetration, My ex-girlfriend got me into it with her, but all of this makes me worry that I'm gay when I know I like women. So what does this make me straight with a fetish bi? I'm very confused and have been for quite some time

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Is it unusual to start being attracted by same-sex in ...

I\'m a 35 year old man who has recently discovered that I\'m bisexual. Before this, I thought of myself as hetero: totally into women, not into men. However, as I\'m continuing my spiritual and self-discovery journey, I find I am attracted to men, when I never have been before. Are there other people who have discovered they\'re bisexual in their mid 30\'s? Is this an unusual time to be making this discovery?

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Men: I’m attracted to everything above the waist only

I am somewhat confused at the moment. I have never considered myself a homosexual man, and I still don't. I have never had romantic feelings toward men, but have found myself attracted to them before. Like, I will see someone and find them attractive. However, I'm the same way with women. However, I have had romantic feelings towards them. I am in high school, and have had several crushes throughout my life. I've never actually had a girlfriend, but I'm still a freshman. I have found myself attracted to guys, but I don't want to see their dicks. What I have seen (from movies, porn, whatever) doesn't turn me on, and never has. However, I've been attracted to pretty much everything above the waist. Does that make sense? I'm seriously confused. Am I gay, bisexual, what? I don't feel romantically attracted to guys, but I don't mind when a pyschically fit guy is shirtless or whatever. I don't like the male penis, and would not get on my knees and suck it. I know that's...

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I’m confused by my dreams and if they mean that ...

I am 19 year old female, and I am really confused about my sexual orientation. I do not feel attracted to neither boys nor girls, but I am fine when I see two women involved in a sex relationship. When I think about men I do not feel like beign touched by them. All this things really uptset me, because I think that it is not supossed to be like that. Since I am 15 years old I have dreams having sex with boys and girls, but I can not see their faces; and I do not like these dreams because I do not want to dream like that, and most of the time I am scared to fall slept because of it. I do not know if all these dreams and the way a feel makes me a lesbian or bi. I would like to say, that I have never been involved in a relationship with any gender. I hope you can help me understand what is going on. Do I need a therapist ? if yes, please tell me where to call to. Thank you so much

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