Tag: asexuality


I think I might be asexual or aromantic but I’m ...

I think I may be a- or demi-sexual & -romantic, but I'm not sure exactly. The way I feel is about the same for both, so as an example: I'm not sure if I've ever felt romantically attracted to anyone. I have had some experiences I might call crushes, but I really struggle to identify what is and isn't romantic attraction. I feel like it should be simple to tell but for me it's not. There are one or two instances where I've felt like I'd like to have a romantic relationship with a specific person. In general, I want to have romantic relationships, but not with specific people. I maybe think about things I'd like to do with a partner, but very rarely do I think about specific people in that way. Sexuality is maybe a little simpler to figure out? I don't feel like I'm sexually attracted to people. I'm turned on by watching porn, but that's more about the acts than the people, I think. I've never had sexual fantasies involving people I know. Actually, my sexual fantasies don't usually include me at all. But, like with romance, I do want to have sex. I know that there's a range of how asexual people feel about sex, but what I've seen doesn't usually include actively wanting sex? I don't know. I guess in summary, I think I might be demiromantic and asexual, but I still want romantic and sexual relationships. Beyond how I feel about that myself, I kind of worry that people wouldn't want those things with me- especially, a romantic relationship- if I don't feel attracted to them. Do you have any advice about how to talk to people about this, or more insight on my situation?


I started finding people less attractive, does it mean I’m ...

I wanted to ask if I was asexual I like both genders and I would have sexual contact with them the reason i’m confused is because I started finding people less attractive like everyone I don’t find people necessarily attractive anymore which is weird because it happened out of no where I mean I still get horny it’s just I don’t find anyone attractive so idk if I wanna have sex but I do just with someone that I would find attractive and I don’t find anyone attractive so it’s really confusing


My partner is asexual and I’m not. How can we ...

I feel kinda awkward asking this but there aren’t many ressources so I think this is my best shot. I’m trans and my bf is also trans. We are in a long distance relationship. He’s asexual and I’m not however he’s pretty okay with having sex he just doesn’t get anything out of it and he prefers kinky things then actual sex. We’ve tried a few things but I wanna find a way I can make both me and him happy sexually dépiste being far apart. Any suggestions on how to do that in long distance relationships ?



Can you be lesbian without a strong attraction towards anyone ...

Can you be lesbian without a strong attraction towards anyone yet? I’ve never really felt a strong attraction towards or had a crush on anyone of either gender yet. I’ve been questioning my sexuality for a while, and i started to think i might be a lesbian. This has lead me to the question, do i need to have felt a strong attraction or had a crush on a girl to be a lesbian? And does it really matter anyway? Many thanks, Samantha





I’m confused by my dreams and if they mean that ...

I am 19 year old female, and I am really confused about my sexual orientation. I do not feel attracted to neither boys nor girls, but I am fine when I see two women involved in a sex relationship. When I think about men I do not feel like beign touched by them. All this things really uptset me, because I think that it is not supossed to be like that. Since I am 15 years old I have dreams having sex with boys and girls, but I can not see their faces; and I do not like these dreams because I do not want to dream like that, and most of the time I am scared to fall slept because of it. I do not know if all these dreams and the way a feel makes me a lesbian or bi. I would like to say, that I have never been involved in a relationship with any gender. I hope you can help me understand what is going on. Do I need a therapist ? if yes, please tell me where to call to. Thank you so much


Am I asexual?

I have always been attracted to females I discover this when I was very young, probably around 6. But as I grew up, I noticed I would barely get attracted to them, like it takes a lot for me to get attracted to a woman, more than looks. Is it normal to feel this way? Is this lack of attraction normal? I'm 23 and I have had only 3 women in my life. Is that normal? Am I asexual?