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I had an abortion for my boyfriend, and now he ...

I have been with my boyfriend for one and a half year. Recently, he has changed so much, and he's no longer the guy I once fell for. Last year, I aborted our baby because he told me that he didn't want to be tied down. After what happened, he started to refrain from making love to me by using his religion as an excuse all of a sudden so that he doesn't have to deal with the responsibility for getting me pregnant again. Now, he acts secretively as though he has someone else in his life. He used to be very loving towards me. I thought that he would appreciate & cherish me more after what happened. I even agreed not to mention anything about marriage as he has no intention to settle down. He treats me nicely when he's in the mood but he also hurts me and treats me like badly most of the time, especially when he is asking me why am I still upset over an aborted baby. Yesterday, he told me that he doesn't love me anymore. How can I make him love me again?


Is my boyfriend gay ? He has gay friends and ...

My boyfriend prefers anal sex over vaginal sex. When we have vaginal intercourse he often needs to touch my anus to maintain his erection. I found porn on his computer and almost all of it involved anal sex between women (none of it was homosexual) and most of it involved BDSM. However, he's never expressed an interest in that in bed or, for that matter, in anal stimulation for him. He's very loving and respectful and we have a very trusting, active and uninhibited sex life. Very often, he is the initiator, but he's keeping the BDSM thing a secret and I'm a little concerned about how much his sexual interests revolve around anal play. I'm wondering if he might be gay. Before our relationship (we've been together about a year) he had many beautiful female partners, but says that the sex was flat and unfulfilling. He also has a lot of gay friends and seems to relate to them more than to straight men in that their non-sexual interests are usually more aligned.


I am a girl who is in love with my ...

I am a girl who is in love with my gay best friend's boyfriend. I know it sounds really bad but I can't stop thinking about him. When I'm with him it's great, and I can see us together, but he is dating my best friend. When we get drunk, we kiss a little bit and joke about how we would be happy together, but he means more to me than he actually knows. When my dad died early this year, he was there more than my own friends, if I have a problem I will go to him first, and he will come to me instead of going to his friends. I am unsure of what to do about it, and how to act, even though I know that nothing will ever happen between us.



Is enjoying anal sex an indicator that my boyfriend is ...

I want to know if my boyfriend is bisexual… He keeps putting vibrators and other objects in his anus and he doesn't know why he does it. I am concerned he may be bisexual, and I just need to know if my intuition has led me in the right direction… Thanks a lot!


How can I get castrated? What are the effects of ...

I have always hated my male organs, starting as early as age 12. How can I get them removed? What are the effects of castration? Will I become an « eunuch »? I have discussed this issue online, but I would like further information. I have not had any other surgery before.


I am attracted to my teacher who has an history ...

I am attracted to my teacher, and he might be attracted to me. These are the reasons why this has crossed my mind several times. For example, when I asked my close friend Joe if he wanted me to kiss his hand because he had hurt it, my teacher overheard and said « Were you being suggestive there Millie?' I answered « No, sir.» but then he said « Were you being naughty? » and looked me up and down. The way he said it and the way he looked at me was just not right. He also touched my hand. He is an ICT teacher and once, he put his hand over mine in class to move my mouse. It made me feel weird, the way his hand was on mine. And I found out that some time ago, he was suspended for texting my friend's sister and planning to meet her outside of school hours. Therefore he has a history of getting involved with his students. The absolute worst part about this whole thing is that I am very much attracted to him. But I know what is right and wrong. I know it doesn't feel right but I need someone to tell me if I am overreacting. I really like him!



I have sexual fantasies about my stepmother, and I don’t ...

Hello, I've just turned sixteen and for the past year or so I've been having sexual fantasies about my Step-Mom. I want to tell her, but I don't want her to hate me or feel disgusted by me. I know this could be due to hormonal changes, as she is the only female I see because I am home-schooled. I feel really horny around her and masturbation doesn't help, so I was wondering if there is anyway to stop this feeling without therapy? AlterHeros, I need your help!


My girlfriend’s family doesn’t want her to go out with ...

Hi, I think I got a problem. Well, I love a girl and she is my sister's friend and she love's me but the thing is her mom – she kind of found out what was going on and she does not want her daughter to be with a girl. I just fell like dumping her even if it has only been 2-3 days that we did made are relation official – and that's because of her mom. I don't want to be causing trouble in her family. My girlfriend knows that I am an alcoholic and she accept that fact, but I know myself and if her brother make her feel guilty I will go drunk to see him and do something to him. I don't know what to do because of her family. I am ready for that. Please HELP ME before I get crazy. She is like 16 and me 19.




Do I have herpes or another sexual transmited disease (STD)?

I went to the doctor because during sex my fiancé rubbed 2 raw spots on me. When the doctor looked she didn't say I had anything but that because of the area she wanted to run a test. I have no symptoms at all of herpes but I am freaking out and need some advice because now my fiancé thinks otherwise and I know I have only been with him for 5 some years. HELP